Saturday, August 18, 2007

Mon 13aug07-Sat18aug07

Fri-Sat17-18aug07
Arrived home Thursday to “care” packages from family and friends, three boxes in all with half a dozen DVDs, eight novels, pounds of nuts and other “wish list” responses… While I appreciate the exploration and discovery of things new and unique to the locale (and the often creative machinations that accompany them!), these are a welcome treasure trove of items that are scarce and in many cases non-existent here, particularly anything in English. I’ve enough reading material to provide at least a couple of months “entertainment” in quiet moment at home, particularly as we go into fall/winter when construction slows and the fabric of my days changes considerably. Looking forward to the literary indulgence(s)… it has been some time since I’ve truly made time for the pure enjoyment of reading!

That said, nibbling the edibles went on temporary hold, though the movies were a welcome diversion… awoke with some kind of flu/food poisoning from who knows where and spent a very long day/evening in less than desirable condition (to put it delicately!). Considerably improved this morning [whew], and approaching anything beyond water with appropriate caution [laughing] Though not my intended means of passing time (I prefer to enjoy movies under less, er, "unsettling" terms), thankfully “off work” for these two days anyway, with both Gabi and Levi away on short holidays before the next GV team arrives tomorrow (Sunday).

Yet another washing machine story, as in the midst of other “travails” already shared, did a small load only to find that while the washer spun, it did not release the water between cycles. I’ve grown accustomed to the sounds it makes and the traveling it tends to do while running, but was greeted with a vision straight out of an old “I Love Lucy” script when I checked on it to find the entire machine and floor covered in water and suds! Always an adventure, prompted some sleuthing to drain the standing water in the machine and see if I could come up with a fix. Discovered a water release and filter at the base, so cleaned all and experimented with a new load this morning... alas, no success, just more water and suds. The bathroom floor is exceptinally clean, and I'm working on Hungarian sufficient to problem solve the current dilemma with the landady!

Trivia... I’ve run across “BYKI” (Before You Know It), a free download from the internet that uses sound, visuals, typing and sequenced flash cards to introduce you to your chosen “tongue”, similar to more expensive software available for more commonly requested/used languages. Started with it in more upright moments yesterday [laughing] and now know the days of the week in Hungarian; it’s a start. The free download has very basic words and phrases, the deluxe version expands the learning process. Could be the start of at least some basic communications skills in the native language… I’m up for that [smile]

Thu16aug07
Up for a breakfast of biscuits/coffee/tea and conversation before making our way back to Szarvas, with stops in a nearby town known for their spas for Hungarian pastries a wee bit of shopping followed by a second surprise stop in Karcag (care-tsag) to see Hungary’s largest windmill… very cool.

Over 18 meters high, it was built in 1856, in operation for roughly 100 years before the advent of electricity and other power sources replaced it. Three-ton stones ground wheat into flour there, and the process and layout of the structure is a fascinating study in physics and leverage. The upper roof is set on a peripheral gear system that can be turned by one hand to position the panes of the windmill for optimum operation, and the primary gear that turned the grinding stones over one another is 75% of the size of the floor it is contained within, balancing on a single 2” diameter rod at its center… amazing! All of the stones weigh in excess of one ton and were movable by one person using simple lever and weight systems, vital to keep the grooves within each stone in proper alignment and condition for grinding. Each of the five floors contains one operational piece of the whole, and it was a great treat to explore it, a testament to practicality, ingenuity and grace in construction. My first windmill… can you tell?

At one time windmills were common in most Hungarian villages and towns. The last man to operate this one in real time now guides tours of it with his son. I am told that a company recently offered in excess of 40,000,000 Hungarian forint (a sizable sum here) to convert it into a hotel; the offer was thankfully turned down. It would be such a loss… hotels based on its design could easily be built (though admittedly not with the same historical “punch”); this 150 plus year old structure with almost all original wood and trappings would be impossible to replace.

Sidebars:
Storks…
… are a common bird in Hungary (or as Levi refers to them to translate, the birds who bring the babies!), large, ungainly heron like creatures whose “call” is the clapping together of their beaks. Their nests are huge creations of sticks and mud, often built on the top of electric poles and chimneystacks, like a coarse and overgrown version of an old fashioned straw hat or nature’s turn on avant garde headgear (check out coutiure fashion shows… you get the idea!). Sesame Street’s Big Bird could take a note from these guys!

Thatched roofs…
… while not commonly built any longer, still have a presence in various places here and elsewhere in Europe. The grasses used for thatching are cut and dried in tall tepee-style configurations. They are then bundled and “sewn” down in layers to form roofs. Despite the artistic ambience it imparts, I am told it is a challenging and dirty job, done in long sleeves and long pants to protect from the sharp stick like consistency of the grasses once dried, as well as the bugs and dirt contained within them. Admittedly less “romantic” when you learn a bit of the process, they are magnificent to see, and practical in the sense that when well cared for, they last an exceedingly long time. They appear intermittently here on various structures, from the occasional city building or restaurant to homes and even a gazebo!

Wed15aug07
Up and out early to participate in the affiliate dedication ceremony in Hajdu with Levi and Kati/George, family home recipients of one of the Szarvas’ Project 1 homes built and dedicated a year ago. It has been a gift in timing to be here and experience something like this, as well as the dedication ceremony for the Project 2 homes built here in Szarvas just after I first arrived… things that happen once a year at most.

The dedication ceremony began in the field where Hajdu’s first homes will be built, an ambitious eight in all in row home style, 4 units to a “home”, with 7 recipient families already chosen and in attendance at the ceremony as well. This town of 32,000 is struggling with unemployment and other concerns, and the need is clearly there. Habitat is working in concert with the local government re provision of land and staffing for the affiliate to assist Shandor, the affiliate project manager who has been training both with the Csurgo affiliate and us. His is a big job, and an exciting opportunity. Land preparation will begin now, with actual on site construction to commence with the arrival of the first GV team to Hajdu scheduled for February 2008. The team will be led by Kim Penzhorn, who will be returning next year not only to lead teams in all three Hungarian affiliates (she has led at least 8 in the country thus far), but as a HFH International volunteer working between all 3 Hungarian affiliates for 6 months. Hajdu will also have a HFH International volunteer couple there with them next year, so lots of support is planned to ensure a solid start for the program there.

After a blessing of the land and burial of a time capsule on the future build site, dedication continued indoors at Hajdu’s town hall, a beautiful building and elegant location. Several local dignitaries spoke, as well as Gyorgy, executive director from the national office and Lucija, program director for HFH ECA (Europe and Central Asia). Family selection members, the families and many others were recognized, myself included (quite unexpectedly), giving a feel for the depth and scope of the program and more definition of what HFH is about for “newcomers” in the audience… a 4 hour program in all, followed by a champagne toast and buffet lunch in a nearby restaurant. Very special to witness and be a part of, and with only one person presenting in English, Levi very kindly interpreted the proceedings in broad strokes so I had a sense of what was being said [smile]

Hajdu is about 2-1/2 hours from Szarvas by car, and we were invited to stay overnight at the home of Shandor and his family before returning home Thursday morning. Theirs is an “average” Hungarian home in furnishing and surroundings, with a reasonable sized yard, 8’x 8’ kitchen, slightly larger living/dining area, water closet and bath and three modest bedrooms inside, all simply furnished to accompany a seemingly relaxed and quiet life style. The yard holds a fruit tree and small flower garden, a larger vegetable garden, and is home to chickens and a small dog who valiantly petitioned for scraps and attention and stood guard in his domain [laughing]

Dinner was “slombuc” (slam-boots), a one pot meal traditional to the region, made of potatoes, pasta, onion and bacon fat prepared over an open fire and served with bread and beer/polinka (a wickedly strong fruit based liquor served in shots)/water and or juice as beverage choices. Shandor’s mom very kindly made a separate dish called “lecto” (lech-toe) comprised of onion, Hungary’ version of a bell pepper, tomato and rice… for this lone vegan in the group, enough to feed at least four! Dessert was watermelon followed by the traditional espresso-style coffee. Simple fare and a lovely evening shared under the trees in the back yard with Shandor’s parents, grandmother, one brother and one of his aunts. Language differences were amusing rather than challenging, and Shandor’s family went out of their way to make certain we were taken care of. The interlude brought back an abundance of memories re growing years in the farm country of Orchard Lake and Lakeville , MN, a simpler time comprised of biking, swimming, exploring in the woods, chores, crafts and playing with friends sans TV/video games/etc.

After dinner, a leisurely walk to the town center for ice cream and to stretch and explore a bit. Stopped a local pub on our way back, and slept together in Shandor/his brother’s room, with a double bed for Kati/George, a single for myself and Levi on the floor for the night… Shandor and his brother and parents shared another room to accommodate us… very generous.


Tue14aug07
Another day primarily on my own ‘till 1600, when I went to the home of Clara, a regular volunteer and English teacher who often joins the teams to translate and answer questions.

We’ve talked about getting together to get to know one another, and two hours later had barely scratched the surface. She is a lively, lovely, faith filled woman, married with two young children, Peter, age 6 and Annette, age 2-1/2… truly delightful to spend time with… I look forward to more opportunities to get to know she and her family as time goes on.

Mon13aug07
On my own today for the most part, doing a bit of work for the national office, prepping for the next GV team, and enjoying a bit of time off.

A note on construction… as in Ireland, women are virtually non-existent in the trades here, and within them are more likely to be inspectors or serving in support roles rather than in hands-on construction positions. That said, for the most part all those I’ve worked with here (in country and on GV teams) are respectful of my role and current knowledge base/experience, though the local men will immediately gravitate towards the guys with construction skills on visiting teams from the states. Partly a “guy thing”, I’m sure, and an often amusing and occasionally disconcerting dynamic [laughing] That said, my not-so-shy builder self continues to join the fray, give with what I know, and keep on learning/growing [smile]

Thoughts on "service" and some "lighter fare" as well...

Personal thoughts on service have come to mind of late…often in our exuberance to serve and “make things better”, those we seek to serve are lost in our enthusiasm and perspective about what is right or what is needed. My personal goal as I explore the wider world around me in this context continues to be to observe and integrate ideas and processes in both directions to preserve culture and adapt old and new in ways that serve all. I am repeatedly struck by the simplicity with which so many things can be done, and how those “ways” have or can be lost in an effort to make things “better”…

It is distressing that we consent to helping another country or culture via the military/volunteerism/etc. and once there, presume to know what is best or right for them; surely this is where communication among nations and peoples can most easily falter and give rise to discord and misunderstanding. When we serve, often there are seemingly obvious improvements that could be made, but at what cost? We humans are diverse creatures. This same reason for contributing/giving is also reason to respect and uphold, to learn all ways, to blend rather than overcome, to uplift and celebrate rather than simply integrate. A poignant poem by a team of Canadians following a GV trip to Africa expresses this beautifully:

*What Efficiency Costs*

One person with a backhoe would not have had the experience of fellowship.
Would not have had the chance to dance in the streets
or celebrate a heavy stone removed from the earth.
Or felt the sweat.
Or the rain.
Or heard the sounds of a rooster
Or a child's laugh.

One person with a backhoe would not see in each tossed stone
a day a family will know the peace of a home they have helped to build.
Or imagine using the earth and its clay,
Its stones to build the home itself.
Or feel blisters and soreness in the hands and still feel joy.
Or drink juice from the pods of a tree that shadows a home.
Or feel heavy earth on their shoes
and be reminded that we are earth too.

One person with a backhoe
would not have received
the gifts of a hug,
or of linens,
or of smiles.
Or the stories.

One person with a backhoe
would have simply dug a hole.
by Canadians Matt, Peter, Rick, Franciene /John, Kathy, Gary, Michele , Janet

"There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged, to find the ways in which you yourself have altered." Nelson Mandela

Much has been laid in front of me of late re my calling and purpose, with the realization of so much yet to be learned about keeping one’s eye on true purpose and calling, separating that which is from God from that which is from man, holding to spirit and grace at all costs. I lost my way this week a bit this past week, and in that diversion was graced with new relationships/friends and unexpected catalysts for growth. Mysterious ways, and I am grateful.

What is my purpose and calling? To contribute with grace, gently and wisely, preserving the culture and respecting the needs of the receiver, to learn dually, honoring both the knowledge and gifts given to me and those of the people I interact with, understanding that often the “simpler” way is the more astounding and humbling, and offers much in the face of faster and seemingly “better” means of doing things. Somewhere in the mix is the balance I suspect we all seek, and within that balance perhaps the true foundation of community. It is the heart of what draws me to this life that has chosen me as much as I have chosen it…

And on to lighter fare:
Produce prices…. $1-1.50 USD for a kg of peaches, pennies for parsley, onions and tomatoes, and much more…

Langos long-go-sh) is a local savory pastry similar to a funnel cake or “elephant’s ear” as they are called at fairs and carnivals in the states. They are only available at the farmers market in Szarvas, with several “flavors”: garlic, cheese and cabbage among them. Hot, tasty, and one of a very few “fast foods” you’ll find here.

Szarvas is a restful place, no fast food spots, the closest being pizza parlors, all with outdoor seating in the summer months. There is one tiny 24 hour market called “Non Stop” that would compare to a 7-11 with a family-owned flair. Beyond that, outside eateries and restaurants are closed by 2200, with “pubs” serving as the gathering places in later hours.

Care packages and wish lists… I found myself pondering the differences between this year and last, and of course there are many. Dublin is an English speaking city, home to roughly 25% of Ireland’s total population, with a fairly complete transit system; a mere 20-30 minutes by bus gets you to shops/vendors carrying most anything you might want or need. Szarvas is a country town of 18,000 a solid 3-1/2 hours from Budapest by bus, with a proportionately smaller collection of things to choose from, and books/movies and other things of course all in Hungarian. An intrepid trio of friends and family from the states have sent several packages my way of their own accord and in response to a wish list since my arrival here… delightful and gratefully received, and remind me of a favorite aunt who believed it was more fun to give gifts randomly and from the heart rather than as constrained by birthdays and holidays. A GV team member has also sent literary treasures my way and yet another promises still more related to green building and growing into one’s dreams… welcome treasures all, with the very best being pictures and “home-movie” film clips… my heartfelt thanks to all for your generosity and support!

Mon6aug07-... A new week, and opportunities to teach and learn renew themselves...

Sun12aug07
Up early to the farmers market for produce, with a later return trip for flowers for my landlady, as a thank you for the many practical and down to earth kindnesses she continues to give, from mail delivery to garbage take out, all done unobtrusively and without fanfare.

Also out to the local grocery to top off the non-“market” domestic needs, only to run amuck with my two wheeled steed en route. A side “benefit” to my time here is a certain prowess with bicycle repair, having had to reset seat, fender and bicycle chain so far. This time the nut holding one of the pedals in alignment with the other worked its way off, leaving me with no pedal/braking power… amazing how vital one small “cog in the wheel” can be to successful operations… like an O-ring on the space shuttle, or the one who keeps all on a construction site from “roller skating” across the floor by persistently picking up errant nails… all important, yes? A mechanical parable, but I digress The upshot was a walk the remainder of the way to the grocery and back home fully loaded, with plans to go to the bike shop as soon as it opens tomorrow for the necessary nut to put me back on wheels again! In the interim, very thankful that this interlude was within 6-8 blocks of home rather than out meandering some 2-3 miles away!

Attended the old Lutheran Church service today with the current team, infused with more music than usual via both the team and a choir whose origins are with the church, here for a reunion this week (among them the seen folks who worked with us on Wednesday). One of their members, a young woman from India, wove together two newer songs sung in part with guitar and in part unaccompanied. Her faith and love of God shone forth in her voice and delivery… stunningly beautiful… truly a gift in all ways, with the song delivered in English in deference/honor of the team’s presence there. Though the lyrics of one of the songs still prove elusive, the other is "As We Gather" (Words and Music by Mike Fay and Tom Coomes):

As we gather may Your Spirit work within us
As we gather may we glorify Your name
Knowing well that as our hearts begin to worship
We'll be blessed because we came
We'll be blessed because we came

Simple, direct, lovely... a musical prayer, as were the translations of several of the pieces sung by the visiting choir. Faith is evident in this small church community still fairly recently out from “under” communist rule… the final line really captured me… “We will be blessed because we came.” ‘nough said.

I joined Gabi and Levi to see the team off, and spent the afternoon catching up once again, as well as getting a jump start on the coming week. Gabi will be away for a portion of it, Levi and I will go to Hajdu for a dedication ceremony to start the new HFH liaison there (this is where Shandor will begin his work in earnest!), and the rest of the week will be far lighter and quieter than the first 7 spent here. The next team arrives Sunday, on the eve of a Hungarian national holiday, and will be with us for ten days.

Sat 11aug07
Sunny, hot and still air by noon most days this week, with today no exception! Our last working day with the current group, building the last headers, laying top plates and continuing the blocking, an intense upper arm workout for all! We use 120cm nails for these tasks, a bit longer than 16 penny sinkers and tougher to nail home, occasionally behaving a bit like pounding galvanized nails into rock, in part because of the quality of the wood we use (combined with opeartor learning curve(s). Rafters will be installed with thick 200cm long nails… time to learn new hammering techniques, or I’ll be all day installing just one (nail that is, not rafter!)!

Family members Zsolt, Zoltan and Andras were on board today, neat to see them working on their own units as well as those of their future neighbors in this row house. Noticed today as these gents amongst our receiving families came on site that handshaking is reserved for the guys, a kiss on each cheek for women and/or men. The wee American in me went for the hand shake out of habit, and was rewarded with that and some laughter as we recognized yet another cultural difference.

Top plates work like those we construct in Kitsap County, interlocking/linking inner and outer walls, and linking inner walls to themselves as well. For one of our team members who does construction in the states, this and other techniques here often seemed like overkill, leading to interesting “shop talk”, always fun for me. A note: To this day I’ve no idea where this love of construction and building comes from, only that despite intense work days and sore muscles at times, I really do enjoy the process in virtually every way.

Blocking is done between the studs of every exterior and interior wall, to strengthen the structure and overcome the twist/warp seen in so much of the lumber we use. Wall junctions are nailed every 12 inches/30 cm from both sides, as are door frames. Interior and exterior doors are fairly heavy here, purportedly 80-100kg each, so rough door frames are reinforced with three 10cm metal rods capped with washers and nuts and countersunk into the frames. No matter how many times kids (young or old [smile]) slam the doors, methinks they’ll hold up to the action for years to come!


The day ended with a lovely farewell dinner with the team and those families able to attend, made all the more intimate by an increasing integration of Hungarian and English speaking folks at each table. With a lively mix of laughter, words and interpretations all were heard and had an opportunity to get to know one another a bit more, truly a step towards global community building even on this seemingly small scale.

Often as we exchange farewells and thank yous, the auxiliary staff here are quiet spectators. On this particular evening Gabi spent special time recognizing Clara, Levi and myself, an unexpected boost to spirit and allways neat to hear for anyone. Levi continued, with a beautiful nod towards me that said it all, really… he feels that a smile, a look in the eyes, and things of this nature say so much more than mere words or thank you can often express, and I agree (though the “hug hog” in me would add hugs as well [smile]). Note: A favorite T-shirt of mine that didn’t make the packing cut for this trip says “I work for Hugs”… so true… for me that gentle and heartfelt contact is worth more than any words or material reward.

Fri10aug07
All interior walls framed, and headers and blocking begun. Team dynamics are always interesting, and much learned with this group that has offered a different style and approach than those I’ve interacted with thus far. Expanded approaches/relationships/connectedness, very cool, all good!

Levi, Gabi and their spouses and I met for a riverfront concert last night to listen to local rock/blues bands and Deak Bill (Bill Deak), a well known Hungarian blues singer. A fun and unexpected surprise to hear Radar Love, Wild Thing and other tunes from back in the day, sung in English but with Hungarian flair. The blues tunes were a combo of things familiar sung in Hungarian as well as songs of their own. Relaxed open seating along the parkway beach and dock areas that one can only find in a small town setting, with a bonus lightning show off in the distance. Very cool.

Thu9aug07
Interior walls almost complete [yay!], building for a half day, with the group taking an afternoon boat ride on the Koros, a history walk with Levi, followed by dinner and free time.

I spent part of the afternoon with Levi and his older daughter Palma swimming at the riverfront… a public beach free to all on weekdays and open for a nominal fee per person on weekends. It was a rare one-on-one offsite time spent talking about childhoods and things outside the HFH arena, much appreciated given Levi’s limited time with family when building is in full swing. A gift in all ways…

Joined the group for the history walk… Levi’s deep passion and connectedness to country evident yet again in his narration of the main events shaping his country. Gabi joined us for a portion of the walk as well; very cool. Their views and feelings about Hungary are different in many ways and as such offer more personal perspective and insight. Definitely a more intimate view of the surroundings thatn one would receive on standard tours in more populated cities…

Wedaug807
Seven Hungarians affiliated with the Old Lutheran Church were on site with us today, members of a choir begun 15 years ago and celebrating that anniversary by doing community service with us. All were fairly young and several knew some English, offering a time for fellowship and getting to know a bit about one another, especially at the lunch hour. Also on track with the team and moving forward together. Funny, sometimes these small detours make for great strides forward; no exceptions here...

One full unit framed completely today with partial framing done in another three, including slightly more work intensive walls in 2 of the 5 units. By days end, we are down to straightforward interior framing to round out this team’s week, and perhaps the beginning of blocking between all studs in all walls to strengthen them before moving on to exterior sheathing with OSB and then on to beginning hand cutting of roof rafters/trusses.

Later in the evening all participated in Hungarian folk dancing before dinner; always fun, always lively, and somehow I found myself as the instructor's dancing partner again... that'll challenge your speed and agility! Fun!

Tue7aug07
Laid plates, learned more about support walls and how they work, where they attach, and building pockets for “headers”, substantial ceiling beams measuring 15cm x 25cm x 600 plus cm, to be lifted into overhead pockets to support ceiling rafters and roof. Suffice it to say that these are weighty once constructed, and are staged into place using ladders and a fair share of patience and sheer brawn!

That “lesson session” complete, I spent what felt like one of my longer days on site working solo laying interior plates for the better part of the day. While I enjoy this particular task, and Levi’s confidence in my doing this and so many other crucial tasks on site are welcome and gratifying, it was not conducive to team building and creating more positive working relations with the current group. Ended up departing for home a bit early to take a breather and “reset”…

Mon6aug07
This group is a "closed" team (meaning not posted to the web for fillin of team spaces) from Lancaster PA, ten in all, four of whom have been here before. Some have construction backgrounds, some are entirely new to the process, all but one members of the same church. Shandor, program manager for the new HFH liaison in Hajduboszormeny or Hajau (Hoi-due) for short, is also with us for the first two days this week to gain exposure to working with a GV team and see more of the building process. Very cool.

Exuberant team/builders overall, great for making progress, though a bit challenging re safety and teaching the new/inexperienced folks so they’re comfortable and understand how and what to do on this first day. Combined with what I was asked to do today, off to a somewhat rocky start as a result, and reminded yet again of the benefit of really assessing styles/grouping team members and teaching styles in ways that encourage all, hold a good balance, and create the best possible experience for all, visiting team and our staff alike.

Build sequence and details… studs are set 40cm on center versus 16” on center, measured from opposite corners versus from one end of a wall to the other. The first bottom plate is a leveling plate and attached to the foundation/concrete floor via J-bolt. The 2nd bottom plate is the squaring plate and attached to the first by 160cm szegsz (nails); the J-bolt heads are cut with a grinder level with the top of the nut securing them so 1st and 2nd plates fit flat together, the 2nd plate fitted over them by drilling holes to accommodate the J-bolt/nut/washer. Next come what we know as standard top/bottom plates and studs, exterior walls built out first with embedded diagonal braces on end walls. Interior demising walls all constructed next and fully sheathed in OSB before rolling them into place. All interior wall framing and header construction follows, and then the full structure is secured with a 2nd top plate to interlock and square the frame inside and out just as we do in Kitsap County. Blocking is installed between every stud pair on all interior and exterior walls (partly to strengthen walls, partly to counter the warping on the wood). Exterior sheathing in OSB will be among the next tasks, with rafters and ceiling truss construction coming later this fall.

Other construction “trivia”… Pockets are built into the center of end and demising walls to accept/support the headers; demising walls are sheathed with OSB to hold square, but not fitted to studs, since they are not exposed…. Interesting in that the walls would be stronger if sheathed the latter way. The former saves on materials, and blocking between demising wall studs will achieve the same strengthening effect.

None of the lumber is “pressure treated” as such, but rather, all are dipped in a chemical bath for worms and termites. The warping we see with each board is caused in part by the dipping, in part by the summer heat that dries these fairly green boards faster than we’d like. All boards require squaring at the ends before being cut for studs and plates. Plates are cut from boards with parallel sides and as flat as we can find, and if warped, will work if warped the long way versus side to side twisting.

They use California corners or “boxes” at wall intersections, and a variation of same at the demising walls to secure the wider center walls that accept the headers later (and provide surfaces for attaching drywall).

A note: A tiny kitten has begun frequenting the site, cute but unwelcome re safety for both it and the distracting “awwwwww” factor we humans react with. and It was “removed” several times, but fits through any fencing or space we have so a somewhat futile process! [laughing] There is a black adult mouser who regularly traverses the site in the early morning with breakfast in its mouth, perhaps this wee one’s mum or dad…

Over the weekend the families reset the trailer location, cleaned it out almost completely, built shelves in the container, added lighting, and basically reorganized tools , etc. for a more easily accessed system…looks fabulous, though it was adventure locating things this morning! TNow to maintain it for them and the final teams this year!

Personal note(s):

I've now been here just 6-1/2 weeks but it suddenly feels much longer, with 5 months yet to go. I sometimes feel I’ve inadvertently enrolled in a doctorate course in relationship as it relates to God, self, and those around me....a concept hard to elucidate. Even with close friends and family, I sometimes feel and grieve the gaps/breaks in understanding, communication and support relative to this amazing life and "school of learning" I have embarked on for the last 3 years... I often wonder where it will lead, and what the larger plan is... many of the devotions and related scriptures of late in “My Utmost for His Highest” speak to this area (God's timing never ceases to amaze me), and lots of praying going on re relying on spirit versus self!

With all that in mind, off to see what "school" has for me this week, remembering that stepping back is not necessarily the best move, any more so than is taking “center stage” (not to be confused with “all life is a stage”!)

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

A "hug" for you...
Thanks for continuing to share the journey!

Sunday, August 05, 2007

"Edible bites" and mini musings...

Eating raw and living:
I have found the occasional avocado at the larger grocery here, a treat in itself, made all the more so by the arrival of cilantro seeds and an abundance of spices and assorted nuts this week from friends in the states. I’m looking forward to raw favorites like green herb salad with parsley and cilantro, and perhaps even some guacamole. Add in the discovery of fresh ginger, and the raw life definitely gets more interesting again. It’s the little things.

Interim dietary favorites are a fruity cauliflower based couscous with cumin/cinnamon and red cabbage salad with apple/carrots/peppers/onion and an avocado/lemon/honey/celery seed dressing. Yum!

Along food lines, things I find intriguing… celery is sold with the celery heart ball at its base, and celery bunches are smaller with slimmer almost reed-like stalks. Raspberries and blackberries are here but very dear in price, peaches are excellent, as are almost any of the veggies, especially tomatoes, cucumbers, onions and potatoes. No blueberries, even as imports, though a variety of melons and squashes have begun making their appearance at the Friday market. Chicks, ducklings, and live chickens are sold there, the mature birds tied at the feet and carried home live in baskets by bicycle or on foot, their fate to be determined upon arrival at their new destination.

New “toy”:
I treated myself to a second bike basket, this one over the rear fender; between front and back baskets and backpack, I can almost do a “proper shop” as the Irish would say, and purchase everything in one trip versus planning multiple stages out and back by bike. Somewhere as I type this one trip nature of mine I can feel Mom smiling… as a kid I would haul garbage out to a burn bin all in one fell swoop, even if it meant going back and picking up the fallout engendered en route. It’s my “get er done” gene in action; that’s my story and I’m sticking to it!

Mini musings:
I find myself wondering what things will be like as the final teams come and go here and the remaining 50% of my stay is immersed in Hungarian ways and language. Methinks it’s time to put some concerted effort into linguistic learning, a proactive preventative measure to limit floundering (say all that fast three times ).

3aug-5aug07: Off, but, er, not running

Sun5aug07
This morning finds me typing madly at this “journal” of the past two plus weeks, to post, dazzle and amuse as I continue to share this experience that is Szarvas. Sundays are beautiful here, with pealing church bells, bird song and neighborhood sounds playing steadily through the morning hours. The next team arrives mid afternoon, this one a group of ten from the US, three of whom are returning from last year.,, and the process begins yet again. Their time here will be focused on building out interior walls, and perhaps sheathing exterior walls (they do this with screws versus nails, after the walls are up, as they are already incredibly heavy given the timber we work with). We’re looking forward to meeting them, as always

As I work on this in the office, two storks have landed on a nearby rooftop. They “talk” by clapping their beaks in a staccato sound that sounds like an overgrown and very loud woodpecker. A first sighting for me, interesting and gangly specimens with the coloring of seagulls and the awkward look of herons. No camera , so this word picture will have to do!

Sat4aug07
More uncooking, laundry, and out again on the bike this morning. I had to laugh at Levi’s call around 0930 asking if I was working... he had forgotten to let me know that there would be minimal work on Saturday, and that I was free to play. Our next full day will be Monday with the new team.

I enjoyed an impromptu lunch out with just Gabi and daughter Petra, also a rare event, and most welcome when possible. Often we all go our own way on days off, as chances to do so are few and far between, particularly while the succession of GV teams is in process. That said, I thoroughly enjoy Gabi, Levi and their families, and enjoy being with them in non-Habitat settings as opportunities present themselves.

The remainder of the day was at home… overcast with occasional rain and cool, and a welcome change of pace in weather and activity. Much as I have enjoyed the sunshine here, I find I miss the cool overcast days of the Pacific Northwest, along with water and mountain views. I was wishful thinking about a rainy inside day curled up with a good book, brain off… and loved it, sans the book (nothing available here in English, of course, and it wil be some time before I can assimilate ngarian in written from beyond knowing how to pronounce the words!). Watched a movie instead, napped a bit, and enjoyed the moment

Fri3aug07
The Canadian GV team left at 0800 this morning, with personal goodbyes to/from Levi and Gabi…

For myself, looking forward to two plus days “off” before the next team arrives Sunday afternoon, to catch up with things personal and domestic, and enjoy the outdoors from a “shadier” perspective… nominal shade on the worksite, and only at certain times of day!

Started off by sleeping in (a rarity!), reading a novel gifted by one of the departing team members, and “uncooking” before hopping outside to run errands and do some biking. Very quiet, very relaxing.

Found out via e-mail that dear friends in the states are expecting their second child; exciting news, and at the same time so strange to realize the full pregnancy and birth will all happen before I get back to see them (anticipated due date is sometime in January)!

Mon30jul-Thu2aug07: Framing, dipping, dancing...

Thu2aug07
A “slower” day for the team and me as well… their last work day, with their visit winding down after an intense and productive two weeks put in by all. That said, <”du-du-dudu”... imagine this delivered as a tiny musical fanfare!> all exterior walls complete , and a solid start on interior demising walls (the double walls between each unit).

All met for a farewell dinner with the families, including Levi’s whole family, Gabi and her daughter, and Klara. Gifts, mementos, and fond farewells/hugs were exchanged by all to close the evening. I will miss them; it has been an especially fun run. Initiation/orientation/acclimation have given way to feeling fully a part of both the team and the staff here. I love it, and am excited for what’s yet to come. Life is so very good!

Wed1aug07
Framing continues, with just four exterior walls to go at day’s end; our mutual goal is for this team to finish the exterior walls before leaving tomorrow… piece of cake.

Folk dancing, dinner at Corner Pub, and a walk to the river rounded out the day. The dancing, like bowling, is often anticipated with mixed feelings, and inevitably enjoyed by all. Fun!

Tues31jul07
I proposed an interior snap line alternative today, but not readily workable, so offered plan “B”, to move the end of the snap line down with each wall we roll, to reduce sagging and problems with it moving in the wind, and keep it tight. It’ definitely making it easier to keep the walls true as we go.

All exterior walls continue to be laid out by yours truly, while answering questions and enjoying the team as always. Worthy of note re the plates… Levi started me out marking them early on, and has left them in my hands for more than 75% of the house, a huge show of confidence in my ability, and an equally large responsibility, since these determine positioning of walls, windows, studs, etc.

It’s a favorite task at home, requiring thought and planning relative to stud placement and wall breaks to ensure the structure is strong and sound, and more challenging here in the sense that the plans are far less detailed than those I’m accustomed to seeing in the states. As the walls go up, I find myself walking the house repeatedly to make sure everything is where it should be! And as I do this and other tasks, I am struck yet again by how the myriad of life experiences we have prepare us and come into play in the most unexpected and amazing ways and times, both simple and complex. Very cool!

The final shim work to bring all bottom floor plates to level was completed today, a huge and cumbersome task… , so we are now working from level across the entire floor platform, and all players are freed up to frame and pursue other tasks for their last couple of days here.

One team member has been resetting our trailer today, a necessary and welcome offer to bring order to the explosion of tools and belongings left behind after departing in haste in the rain yesterday afternoon!

She and another member also continue to dip the lumber for the house in a chemical bath to ward off worms and other potential infestations… things are moving rapidly, so they’re working to keep ahead of us as are our “saw mistresses” (their term!), who work to keep a steady supply of studs coming in between special cuts for floor plates and blocking. Our lumber dippers spent all day making progress with two large stacks of it, only to find at day’s end that the length we needed had not yet been done… yet another plan “B’ now in progress!

Laying plates has grown to include mapping pockets for headers, huge beams built of 3 lengths of 5 x 15 lumber nailed together, with a 5 x 15 layer across the top and bottom as well. These will act as the center support for the rafters/ceiling in each home. Two will be in excess of 6 meters long, and these 5 x 15 “boards” are heavy individually… good thing we have teams of humans to lift ‘em! They will be built and installed once all the walls are constructed to make accurate measuring and construction easier.

Dinner was followed by a jaunt to my flat for dessert and conversation, this time ice cream with apple crisp raw food style, well received judging from the recipe requests The presence of Gabi and Levi made the time together even more special, with many questions about life in Hungary answered by both, each of whom has different views and experiences despite both growing up in this area.

Mon30jul07
Definitely a "Monday" for me, with an odd start on site with Levi... seemingly tough time getting answers to questions re laying out the floor plates and definitely not clicking for whatever reason, a first. Also working on finances, which have proven frustrating in the moment, perhaps a test a faith, perhaps just the machinations of the economy... add in a thing or two personal and all those interesting factors led to a less than auspicious start to the day and week That said, always, always learning, laying plates, answering questions/making decisions/teaching/coaching and simply enjoying time with the team in the process. With a bit of humor and steady work, all good in the end; these occasional “Mondays” are a great reality check and lender of perspective, and push learning/adapting/balancing/and gratitude to new levels, yes?

Tonight’s dinner was in the old Lutheran church wine cellar, always well received and a unique place to spend time. Half a dozen wines sampled, from light reds to dry white, accompanied by huge pizzas with a plethora of toppings, most familiar, some not, like egg, and corn, and plates of cheeses and sweet cakes from Gabi.

Mon23jul-Sun29jul07: leveling and exploring

Sun29jul07
An open day for the team, beginning with attendance together at the old Lutheran church 1100 service. A bit more than an hour long, it is an interesting study in how people worship, with many similarities between home and here despite the difference in denomination and language. Team leader Kim and I did our best to sing the hymns, and I think all enjoyed the experience. There is much to be said simply for sitting quietly and soaking up the ambience of this 18th century place of worship whose pews and structure are original, and feeling the atmosphere beyond language and ritual. Klara attended with us and very kindly wrote a brief synopsis of the sermon to give a sense of what had been said.

Once out, folks scattered to follow their whims for the day in pairs and small groups. I met three from the team for lunch and went biking with them to the neighboring town afterwards. A perfect day for it, overcast and cool with the occasional spritz of light rain, uneventful but for the flat tire on one of the bikes halfway through! We rode home to the symphony of clacking and clicking form mine, and sounds of flattened rubber squeaking across pavement and tire rim on the way back from the “wounded” steed. Definitely no possibility of sneaking up on anyone!

Bowling and dinner as a group rounded out the evening, with the solo American (yours truly) holding up well “against” the Canadian forces at the lanes

An interesting side note: When asked, I of course identify the US as my country of origin, though in truth I realize I view myself far more as one in a world of diverse humans versus connected with a specific country, a global citizen, if you will. It’s a reflection of where my heart lies, I think, and my concept of how our world can be, with culture preserved, yet less boundaries or lines drawn, figuratively or otherwise. Food for thought.

Sat28jul07
A hot and sunny on site work day with both the team and families… one portion of the intrepid Canadian force still shimming and leveling bottom plates, one portion framing the first exterior walls with the families.

We began with Levi’s direction in English and Hungarian so all would understand how the process goes here. It is much the same as in the states, made a bit more interesting re communication with so many Hungarians on the floor deck with us… build a wall section, gather forces to roll it up into place, level/square and nail it, then on to the next.

Because of the floor layout and plate system here, open space to frame walls on the floor deck is limited, so we build just one section at a time. The challenges with leveling and squaring come into play as we frame, with squaring done to a snap line versus relative to the first plates down. The snap line is a 37-meter long nylon line attached to a stake at either end of the house. It blows in the wind and is affected by so many other factors that it is a frustrating "tool" to use. Conceptually I understand, though it seem easier/more accurate to paint or snap a line on the inside of the house and roll walls up relative to that (in essence what we do in Washington)... stationary, easier to see, more consistent... though not possible for this home now. More on this on a later date…

By day’s end four sections of wall were up leveled and squared, myself left wholly in charge of this for a portion of the afternoon… instructing, connecting and learning creative ways to communicate with family members in Levi’s absence… daunting at first, rewarding overall, great practice and seemingly well accepted by all in the role, very cool in this country and culture whose builders/tradespersons are men versus women. Methinks they’ve gotten used to me being there and directing from time to time, and I suspect Levi’s leaving the site in my hands speaks volumes… it certainly does to me. I enjoy the challenge, responsibility, and am deeply moved and gratified by his confidence in me. I love doing this!

Fri27jul07
The team is off to Gyula today, while Levi and I spent the morning laying out the remaining first plates for interior walls in preparation for Saturday’s work. It’s a rarity for Levi and I to work one on one, and was great fun… jokes, singing, and Hungarian lessons and multiple breaks were woven into the morning, with the task at hand still completed by noon. Gabi had anticipated this as a day off for me, and as the team had my cell phone on loan for their time away, I wasn’t caught in the act of working ‘till lunchtime when she came out to the site to see what was up and discovered me there

The afternoon was spent catching up at home, and all shared an evening meal and the day’s adventures together at Halasz, a riverfront restaurant we’ve begun to patronize more of late. Nice day for everyone…

Thu26jul07
We’re steadily making progress towards laying/leveling the first plates, though the task is far more tedious and time consuming than expected. The team continues to go after it, knowing that this piece is crucial to how the framing and remainder of the house will go.

Each day we walk to a small pub off site for lunch. Though truly a pub versus eatery, the owners charge a small service fee per person in exchange for the space, and shop for bread, meats, cheeses, munchies, fruits, veggies and yogurt as requested by the team each day. They lay the lunch fixings out picnic style on their pool table (all good, pool aficionados… all is on plastic tablecloths to protect the table!), and set plates and silverware out before we arrive; drinks are purchased from them. It’s a break/change of venue, provides a welcome respite from the sun, and it’s great to gather in a clean space with table and chairs midday.

Back to the Corner Pub for dinner tonight, followed by a walk with Levi along the 1.1 km Memorial Path, populated with 17 visual representations/memorials of Hungarian history, the path is actually on a rise or levy that once protected Szarvas from the rising waters of the river Koros. The memorial stations are educational bits along the way, most wood sculptures conceived by a local sculpter/carver and rendered for this purpose. Of these, the WWII sculpture needed no explanation; in its simplicity and structure, it captured that time explicitly.

It was moving to hear Levi’s “history lesson” delivered with his passion and fire in this venue versus midday on a worksite break. We stopped at each station and listened to its place in history as seen through his eyes. The path culminates in a small windmill-type monument that marks the geometric centre of the larger historical Hungarian Kingdom, a solemn place commemorating what Hungary once was.

Wed25jul07
Strong warm winds gave way to thunderstorms and a bit of rain overnight, yielding a weather break today, very windy and cooler temps today in low 80's versus low 100's, a welcome change in all ways… love those double digits

Despite liberal sunscreen applications, have acquired raccoon eyes, "socks" and “gloves” as part of the inevitable construction tan: knees to ankles, back of the neck, and shoulders to wrists. Because I've been wearing shorts versus jeans in the heat, I'm also collecting scratches, abrasions, splinters and pricklers from local flora as we work. It's a look

Shared a hillbilly farmer joke sent by a friend today with Levi... right up his alley (in essence, two hillbillies were talking, one saying he thought he would get a divorce… his wife hadn’t spoken to him in 2 months. His buddy cautioned against it… hard to find another one like that (ba-dum-pum!)… really better delivered in person, but seemed a shame to tease you and not share

Bowling was originally on the agenda this evening, postponed to Sunday when all are fresher and more likely to enjoy it. Though not a cultural event, it’s a fun activity that the teams who’ve indulged have enjoyed. I maintain it’s all about the fluorescent pink and yellow shoes! The team went out for pizza with Klara instead; she is a local resident who has helped with teams in the past… a lively and delightful woman with a ready smile and open to sharing all kinds of information, answering questions, and coaching where translations are needed.


Tue24jul07
Triple digit heat yet again, with blue skies, and full sun; our sunscreen product SPFs rise with the heat!

Every team in has its own style and personality. The current team is the best yet for me, in terms of finding a rhythm with Levi, the team and my "duties" here, so am having fun! They are relaxed and quick to learn overall, and their timing is perfect for framing, generally everyone's favorite part of the building process, which adds to the mix. Levi continues to gift more responsibility to me and interacts with me more and more as the guys at home do, making it easier for me to help him and get into the Hungarian building groove. The team leaders for each group seem key in setting the tone for the group, which makes sense, as they interview and select applicants for their teams (whether open or closed)....kind of like the "mom" influence in many families.

I am now definitely standing in site supervisor shoes, with as many if not more questions coming my way than Levi's (this is what we shoot for, so that when questions go to him, they're essential ones). He has more thinking time, and can enjoy and interact with the volunteers more, knowing there is another willing and capable set of hands to keep an eye out, make sure everyone has something to do, and all are doing things as he has asked. Without expressly directing it this way, the team members will approach me for decisions and task assignments as much if not more so than Levi, so whatever chemistry we concocted for this week is working well. I think a fair share is in how I am now delivering, having been here long enough to understand his process, etc., and working with more clarity after talking together last week.

One of the nicest compliments I have received came last night at dinner, as we were talking about the global village system, representing our countries, how volunteerism and serving our countries in the military look relative to funding, support, recognition, and assistance from the government. They told me I was an excellent representative of the US (they are all Canadian). Very cool. I am here to serve God, be my best self, and in doing those two, represent my country well.

They have also expressed how much they appreciate me on site… I’m sure it helps to have more resources, my English is of course faster and clearer, and my style is to use humor and at the same time make sure folks not only know how to complete a particular task, but understand why they're doing it and how it relates to the overall picture. I'm also finding I can answer more and more questions about Hungary, Habitat here, and what we do on site without having to ask first myself, so am steadily absorbing things Hungarian. The truth is, I love doing this more than anything… teaching, working together, meeting new folks, and creating community in this very focused yet natural way, with all here by choice to learn, give, and build. Again I say, very cool. I am so blessed to be here!



Mon23jul07
The heat continues, though at least a handful of degrees (Fahrenheit) cooler than last week (no triple digits); gloves help reduce splinters from our rough hewn Slovak pine, and to keep a firm grip on tools with otherwise slick and sweaty hands! We are beginning pre-framing projects while we continue to establish level and square bottom plates using shims and blocking. door and window frame “Pre” projects are built with trimmer and king studs on each side, with cripples and blocking 40cm on center to support drywall at later stages. Headers are a bit different…. the rate-limiting step in beginning is squaring and cutting everything, including every stud!

New team, great fun thus far, with team leader Kim, who has led several global village trips, eight of them to Hungary. She'll be returning to this country as a HFH international volunteer next year working with all three sites.... very cool. As such she's pretty comfortable in town that means the possibility of more nights at home this week and less out with the team, for all of us. Potentially a better working balance, and they can always reach us if need be.

Levi's pretty tense starting out this week, making for interesting interaction. I imagine most is due to having to re-establish level for the floor deck, and explaining the process to the group. As it turns out, the concrete forms before we poured, so things are way off and have already cost us at least a week in prep time... I'd be a bit cranky too!

Gabi's been tense as well... am thinking they have much on their minds and that it’s perhaps challenging handing things off, so I’m just putting my two cents in everywhere that seems appropriate, and really working to develop systems to streamline the process of having teams in... seems it is often more complicated than it needs to be, though that may be more obvious to me than to them... often easier to see when not so close to it, and with less to keep track of then they The benefits may be realized more so next year than this, and neat to realize that whatever groundwork I can lay now may be carried forward with new eyes and hands when Kim comes for her appointment next year. THAT’s sustainability, yes?

Dinner was easy and relaxed at the Corner Pub. We’ve moved to collecting dinner orders at lunchtime and turning them in to the restaurant ahead of time so meals are ready within minutes of when we arrive. It’s a win-win for all, allowing the pub to plan accordingly, and shortening mealtime so team and HFH staff have more free time each evening.

More random facts and vocabulary "102"...

I’ve noticed that often when we take the visiting GV (Global Village) teams out to restaurants for dinner that are very few if any local folks there. As it happens, dining out is quite expensive relative to the local economy, and thus a rarity. In its stead there are several “pubs” that serve beverages and drinks rather than food, and in fact are not licensed to serve food, versus the other way ‘round. Interesting. I’ve often wondered how much the visiting teams do for the local economy, as /they certainly support restaurateurs in their time here…

One location that does rousing business for both our teams and local residents is Regimodi, a traditional Hungarian restaurant with family seating and a self-serve operation for ordering, picking up your food, and bussing your dishes…a great way to provide hearty meals at low cost. With indoor and outdoor seating (several restaurants have this capability here) and a playground for the kids, they’ve created an atmosphere for all ages.

Vocabulary…
Kerek (care-wreck)= Please or “I would like”
Kosonom (keer-so-nome) = Thank you
Szivesen (see-vi-shen) = You’re welcome
Viz (veez) = Water
Kerek vizat = I would like water please
Menyi (men-ye) = How much
Hol (hole) = Where
Mikor (me-core) = When
Egeszsegedre (egg-eh-sheg-eh-dreh) = To your health
Fa (fah) = wood
Fal (fall) = wall
Padlo (pah-d-low) = floor

Note: Many of the vowels in these Hungarian words have additional symbols above them to cue you as to their sound that are not available on my computer or by download, but the phonetics will give you an idea of how they sound and what I hear!

"tweener days"

Sun22jul07
“Round 2” of GV teams commences today, following last week’s “break”… one arrives early this afternoon for a twelve day stay, the next immediately following for a nine day stay, and still another 5 days later for a nine day stay. At that point there is a significant break, from the very end of August through mid September, so I’m plotting my first excursion possibility to see more of Hungary and beyond, in part to reset my visa, and in part to begin to explore the area thtat is eastern Europe. High on my list (to start) are the countries of Greece, Croatia and Italy, and the cities of Vienna, Prague, Bratislava, with plans to expand as I go Vienna and Bratislava can be reached by hydrofoil or “cruise ship” on the Danube, an enticing possibility.Time for sightseeing versus site-seeing with more to come as plans unfold

Today’s arrival is an ”open” GV team from Canada, their team leader a woman returning here for her third year, leading teams both here in Szarvas, and in Csurgo, Hungary. I look forward to meeting both she and her current group; each that has arrived thus far has its own unique personality and dynamic, adding that additional element to the business of building together. In this way it continues to be a very different experience than volunteering in Kitsap County where so many are “regulars”. Both methods “get ‘er done”, both have possibilities that can be explored to expand the volunteer base and experience (busy brain contemplating the opportunities ).

Sat21ju07
Another close, hot day with intermittent very warm air breeze. Spent the morning loading two weeks worth of blog and pictures info and checking things financial, with a break at 0900 for a local parade… small but delightful, with various civic groups represented, accompanied by a marching brass band, baton twirlers, an equestrian group, several open horse drawn carriages, and an abundance of multicolored helium balloons. The band played on the center square in front of the town’s Ceres monument/artesian well, and the whole procession reversed course and came back through town to end the affair. Very nice.

Bike riding was the ticket in the late afternoon to stir up some air and run errands. The whole of the town felt closed and quiet over all, with very few folks out and about, even at local pubs and eateries… simply too warm, I suspect, though I imagine the pool and the river saw plenty of action

Szarvas is often quiet on weekends; local shops close just after noon time, and I like to imagine that time is being spent together with family and friends playing and enjoying one another versus bustling about as we so often do… perhaps more “stopping to smell the roses”… nice thought. There is much to be said for small “sleepy” town living, and Szarvas reminds me a bit of growing years as a wee one in Minnesota, and again when I worked in the southern part of that state as a pharmacist in a town of just 1500 people, where simple pleasures top the list… lemonade on the front porch, a beer at the legion post, climbing trees, splashing in the lake, hometown parades that all can participate in and family time top the list. Very cool.


Fri20jul07
Another very warm day, came home at noon, took a shower, drank a liter plus of water, and went to sleep for the better part of 3 hours. Got up and kept drinking... kind of a prolonged system "reset"!

Off this weekend until Sunday afternoon when our next GV team arrives. Surprisingly little communication about prepping for this one… a sign, methinks, that we’re getting closer to being on the same wavelength as a working staff. Nice feeling.

A lot of time spent on site this week understanding the process but not really involved in its execution as Levi trained a new project manager for another location in country; the dynamic is significantly different on site in the absence of a GV team and with most of what needs to be done communicated primarily in Hungarian to the trainee and family members working with us this week. Despite the intensity that accompanies hosting a team, I look forward to Sunday and meeting the next GV group, with more English spoken and a better distribution of time and talent. It's an ongoing process to be sure, but admit that of my time here thus far, this week has been challenging both in weather conditions and communication. That said, am generally a quick study and recognize the value of hanging in and learning in whatever forms present themselves On a do over, would step in more… in the moment, felt it most important that the one in training get as much hands on time as possible…

The national director for HFH Hungary was here yesterday, and hosted a staff lunch for all of us... the majority of the communication again in Hungarian, a pleasant yet fairly long and somewhat isolated 90 minutes compounded by my propensity for taking in what’s given versus asking for more of what I may benefit from as well.

Among the gifts in these experiences… an ever-increasing awareness of what one can take for granted culturally and otherwise in situations familiar to many but not all, and ways to creatively interact in future situations where more than one language is spoken to effect a good balance and ensure all are engaged. All good, and so important. Balance is the key is so much of what we do, yes?

Though I’ve an abundance of goals here identified both by HFH Hungary and myself, none include learning the language. Of late Levi has really pushed at this, and while I agree it is important, even he comments on how complicated it is in syntax, word order and more. The one-time “wanna be” English teacher in me is thoroughly intrigued by its structure, yet from a practical point of view, a long way from conversation, as the words themselves change relative to their place and use in sentence structure, with added sounds and syllables as part of the process. Challenging to even explain as a beginner in the process, and a struggle to pick out even words in passing conversation!

Kaylie, a young man teaching English in the Lutheran Church's local school for the next year, has been encouraging about what I've picked up in a month (he has been here 6 months, and still works with rudimentary Hungarian and consults his dictionary and phrase books often). A nice confidence booster to be sure, and my plan re language is simply to take it in and continue to learn words and phrases here and there as I go; it will be interesting to see how “conversational” I can be by the end of my six months here